Life Plans do Changed

Asalamu alikum

We Plan but Allah also plans

We go through life trying to decide what is best for us and what we want in this life in order to prepare our selves for the next life but the reality is these plans dont always go the way you want

When going into polygyny esp when you are open to it and have a good communication with your husband and you sit down and decide how you would like the next step to proceed in taking that journey into polygyny and both of you are on board but then something happens and you find out the way you planned thing doesnt go that way .. for what ever reason it is it has taken a completely different road and way out of what you wanted   .. and now you wonder how to deal with this

the reality of the situation is that the way it went wasnt done in a bad way it was just part of Allahs plan ..so now you have to step back and allow Allah to show you his plan the reason maybe for this is that Allah is trying to spare you the fitna that may have come with the original plan so for this reason it is best to say Alhamdu lilah and trust in your maker that he knows best for you
 

Life is hard enough without always trying to make it harder and even if we feel that it is hard Allah he knows best and will test those of us he loves .. so open your arms to him and allow the test to take you to where Allah wants you to go 

Always Be Positive

Asalamu alikum

I know alot of ppl when they think of polygyny they think of the negative of it they think oh my life is over they think about wives coming in as home wreckers 

But this isnt true  their is a beauty in polygyny and if we open our eyes to it we will see it ... if we take our selves and feelings out of it we will see that polygyny is a good way of life 

When we allow the negative to take over thats exactly what it does it takes over and we can never see the light but when we think positive about it then you will see positive 

So i know your thinking what positive well first of all it make your relationship better their is more love and understanding ... their is the joy of knowing that you have help another human being in a time of need which leads to hasant and a better life in the next life ...if you start out negative then it will be just that and even if you try to pretend that your positive it will show eventually, but starting out positively  will lead you to a positive attitude and alot of good 

 

Our husband want what is best for us and they want jannah for us and even tho some women see him as being selfish and not loving them it kills them because he knows by doing this sunnah the reward is more than we could ever imagine more to what even him ,himself can get and all you have to do is be good with him ... think about the responsibility that he has after he marries again having to alway be fair and just and having to deal with women who may always show their ungratefulness to him no matter what he does ...and remember ladies this is one of the signs of the last days where the women do this 

 

So think positive be positive and reap in the rewards  

Positivity ...Let's Share

Asalamu alikum 

I would like to do a series of positive posts on polygyny ...so i would like to invite you to email me your story on your journey through polygyny  ..or even to say something positive about polygyny ...are you up to the challenge...if so please send your posts to me at cowivesclub@gmail.com...and i will post them if you dont want your name told then say post anonymously

Jazak Allahu Khairun

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