Always Be Positive

Asalamu alikum

I know alot of ppl when they think of polygyny they think of the negative of it they think oh my life is over they think about wives coming in as home wreckers 

But this isnt true  their is a beauty in polygyny and if we open our eyes to it we will see it ... if we take our selves and feelings out of it we will see that polygyny is a good way of life 

When we allow the negative to take over thats exactly what it does it takes over and we can never see the light but when we think positive about it then you will see positive 

So i know your thinking what positive well first of all it make your relationship better their is more love and understanding ... their is the joy of knowing that you have help another human being in a time of need which leads to hasant and a better life in the next life ...if you start out negative then it will be just that and even if you try to pretend that your positive it will show eventually, but starting out positively  will lead you to a positive attitude and alot of good 

 

Our husband want what is best for us and they want jannah for us and even tho some women see him as being selfish and not loving them it kills them because he knows by doing this sunnah the reward is more than we could ever imagine more to what even him ,himself can get and all you have to do is be good with him ... think about the responsibility that he has after he marries again having to alway be fair and just and having to deal with women who may always show their ungratefulness to him no matter what he does ...and remember ladies this is one of the signs of the last days where the women do this 

 

So think positive be positive and reap in the rewards