Always Be Positive

Asalamu alikum

I know alot of ppl when they think of polygyny they think of the negative of it they think oh my life is over they think about wives coming in as home wreckers 

But this isnt true  their is a beauty in polygyny and if we open our eyes to it we will see it ... if we take our selves and feelings out of it we will see that polygyny is a good way of life 

When we allow the negative to take over thats exactly what it does it takes over and we can never see the light but when we think positive about it then you will see positive 

So i know your thinking what positive well first of all it make your relationship better their is more love and understanding ... their is the joy of knowing that you have help another human being in a time of need which leads to hasant and a better life in the next life ...if you start out negative then it will be just that and even if you try to pretend that your positive it will show eventually, but starting out positively  will lead you to a positive attitude and alot of good 

 

Our husband want what is best for us and they want jannah for us and even tho some women see him as being selfish and not loving them it kills them because he knows by doing this sunnah the reward is more than we could ever imagine more to what even him ,himself can get and all you have to do is be good with him ... think about the responsibility that he has after he marries again having to alway be fair and just and having to deal with women who may always show their ungratefulness to him no matter what he does ...and remember ladies this is one of the signs of the last days where the women do this 

 

So think positive be positive and reap in the rewards  

Positivity ...Let's Share

Asalamu alikum 

I would like to do a series of positive posts on polygyny ...so i would like to invite you to email me your story on your journey through polygyny  ..or even to say something positive about polygyny ...are you up to the challenge...if so please send your posts to me at cowivesclub@gmail.com...and i will post them if you dont want your name told then say post anonymously

Jazak Allahu Khairun

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Believing in Allahs qadar

Asalamu alikum 

Do ppl really believe in their whole heart THE QADAR OF ALLAH ..do they understand it's really meaning

Qadar means that Allaah has decreed everything that happens in the universe according to His prior knowledge and the dictates of His wisdom.

In Saheeh Muslim (2653) it is narrated that ‘Abd-Allaah ibn ‘Amr ibn al-‘Aas (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: I heard the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) say: “Allaah wrote down the decrees of creation fifty thousand years before He created the heavens and the earth.”  
And the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “The first thing that Allaah created was the Pen, and He said to it, ‘Write!’ It said, ‘O Lord, what should I write?’ He said: ‘Write down the decrees of all things until the Hour begins.” Narrated by Abu Dawood, 4700; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Abi Dawood.

So why is it then that when something goes wrong ppl start to think that what ever has happened happened because they didnt do such and such or because i'm no good ... the truth is the qadar of Allah is just that ...he has written it before you were born ... the same goes for Polygyny ... all of what will happen in your life has already been written .... and when a man takes on another women then that was written for him as well as for her she may have been married before but whatever happened in her marriage happen because Allah decreed it to happen at that time because maybe she was meant for another

I think if you dont believe full in the Qadar of Allah then you have not accepted the full extent of islam ...because the Qadar of Allah is one of the Pillars of Eman

Allaah says concerning His actions (interpretation of the meaning):
“And your Lord creates whatsoever He wills and chooses”
[al-Qasas 28:68]

“and Allaah does what He wills”
[Ibraaheem 14:27]

“He it is Who shapes you in the wombs as He wills”
[Aal ‘Imraan 3:6]

And He says concerning the actions of created beings (interpretation of the meaning):

“Had Allaah willed, indeed He would have given them power over you, and they would have fought you”
[al-Nisa’ 4:90]

“If your Lord had so willed, they would not have done it”
[al-An’aam 6:112]

All events, actions and happenings occur only by the will of Allaah. Whatever Allaah wills happens, and whatever He does not will does not happen.