Asalamu alikum
We Plan but Allah also plans
We go through life trying to decide what is best for us and what we want in this life in order to prepare our selves for the next life but the reality is these plans dont always go the way you want
When going into polygyny esp when you are open to it and have a good communication with your husband and you sit down and decide how you would like the next step to proceed in taking that journey into polygyny and both of you are on board but then something happens and you find out the way you planned thing doesnt go that way .. for what ever reason it is it has taken a completely different road and way out of what you wanted .. and now you wonder how to deal with this
When going into polygyny esp when you are open to it and have a good communication with your husband and you sit down and decide how you would like the next step to proceed in taking that journey into polygyny and both of you are on board but then something happens and you find out the way you planned thing doesnt go that way .. for what ever reason it is it has taken a completely different road and way out of what you wanted .. and now you wonder how to deal with this
the reality of the situation is that the way it went wasnt done in a bad way it was just part of Allahs plan ..so now you have to step back and allow Allah to show you his plan the reason maybe for this is that Allah is trying to spare you the fitna that may have come with the original plan so for this reason it is best to say Alhamdu lilah and trust in your maker that he knows best for you
Life is hard enough without always trying to make it harder and even if we feel that it is hard Allah he knows best and will test those of us he loves .. so open your arms to him and allow the test to take you to where Allah wants you to go
