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Tuesday 18 November 2014

Why do some marriage dont work


Asalamu alikum

Why do marriage some breakdown and end up in divorce ...the answer to this is Allahu Alum ...Allah knows best as everything is in his hands 

Their are many reason as to why ... ppl fall out of love ... circumstance changes and many more reason ...one of the reason can be within the deen and that is from sihr ..ayn... and jinn ... and all of this will onlt work witht he permission of Allah  ...if your upon the haqq and doing everything Allah says for you to do ... like praying all salat on time and even doing the sunnah ones ..fasting .. reading quran everday .. saying your adkar every morning and evening  ...keeping yourself in wudu ..staying away form anything haram ... not watching certain things on tv .... not listen to music and so on 

If someone isnt doing this the only with what is written can sihr ..ayn and jinn afflict you ...and if you become afflicted it can lead to many problem .. like divorce ..as their are different types of magic that are place their to separated husband from wife and the jinn that come to help make this work will do everything to make it happen .... 

. Sihr of Separation
Allah (swt) says: (...and they follow what the Shayateens recited over Sulayman's Kingdom. Sulayman disbelieved not but the Shayateens disbelieved, teaching the people sorcery, and that which was sent down upon Babylon's two angels, Harut and Marut; they taught not any man, without they said, 'We are but a temptation; do not disbelieve.' From them they learned how they might divide a man and his wife, yet they did not hurt any man thereby, save by the leave of Allah (swt), and they learnt what hurt them and did not profit them, knowing well that whosoever buys it shall have no share in the world to come; evil then was that they sold themselves for; if they had but known.) (2:102)

Jabir (ra) reported that the Prophet (saw) said: "Iblis would lay his throne on water and would send his brigade of demons. The lowest among them in rank is the one who is most notorious in stirring up fitna. One of the demons would, after a mission, come and say to Iblis, 'I have done so and so.' Iblis would reply, 'You have not done anything.' Another one would come and say: 'I have not left such and such person until I separated him from his wife.' Iblis would come closer to his demon and say, 'How good you are.'" - (Muslim in An-Nawawi : 17/157)

Definition of Sihr of Separation
It is a Sihr which aims to separate between two spouses, or stir up hatred between two friends or two partners.

Symptoms of Sihr of Separation:
1. A sudden change in attitude from love to hate.
2. Exaggerating the causes of disputes between two people, even though they may be trivial.
3. Changing the mental image that a woman may have of her husband, or changing the mental image that a man may have of his wife; so that the man would see his wife in an ugly way, even though she were beautiful. In reality, it is the demon who is entrusted with the task of performing this type of Sihr is the one who would appear to the husband in her person, but in an ugly way. By the same token, the woman would see her husband in a horrible way.

4. The person affected by Sihr hates anything the other party does.
5.The person affected by Sihr hates the place in which the other party stays. For instance, a husband may be in good mood when he is outdoors, but when he returns home, he feels quiete depressed.
According to Al-Hafidh Ibn Kathir, the cause of separation between two spouses through this Sihr is that each of them appears to the other as an ugly or ill-mannered person. - (Tafsir lbn Kathir: 1/144)

these are just some of the thing that a person see or feels and the jinn will work on it till he reaches his goal

So before ending a marriage think well and see if their is any thing else their causing this ... it could be that finding something may help your marriage or it could be just the time is up and it is written for you not to continue in this marriage 

I do hope and pray that all of you will never have to go through stuff like this that your marriages will go from strength to strength

Always remember Allah and  and ask for his help first before everything else

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