Polygyny and your life

Asalamu Alikum 

The word polygyny vibrates through the harts and minds of women more these days than before why is this ... some women go straight to panic and some become unrecognizable to themselves and to others what causes this   

The shaytan has his ways to make you feel like it is the end of the world and that your life will never be the same ... that part is true your life wont be the same as your family will grow wither you like it or not  . your husband will have another wife or wives and even other kids and this is part of Allahs plan 

we need to stop giving control to shaytan and allowing him into our minds and allowing to place ideas their that arent true 

to me polygyny means family it means new learning and bettering ourselves to reach our goal which is jannah ..we need to embrace this and get on with life 

My rights, Her rights, His rights . What about Allahs rights

Asalamu alikum wa Rahmatulahi wa Barakatuhu 

Yes my rights ... her rights and his rights ....is this what polygyny is all about what about the right of our creator ..Do we truly give those rights to him ... we get so caught up with our going ons in this life which is just a passing moment that we forget who is over all things

We do not give Allah his rights because if we did then we would not question why he does what he does why he choose you to be in polygyny ..why he gave you this test ...Instead we argue .fight ... name call ... make trouble for one another ..we question everything Allah puts in front of us

We should be grateful that he choose us we should be grateful that he is testing us ..as we know that Allah only test those he loves 

If you want your rights then give Allah his rights worship him the way he needs to be worshiped ..keep Allah on your tongues remember him day and night ..remember this life is like a blinking eye it goes by so quick .. the next life is what we are looking for and remember in that we will meet our creator and we will be answerable for all we did and those right that we complained about wont be asked about but we will be asked about what we did in this life