Jealousy ..no room for it

Asalamu Alikum 

Yes ladies we are better than this ..Jealousy really has no part in our heart ..and when i say that i mean the type that causes major problems ....we know the hadith that speak about jealousy of a husband to his wife ..well their should be the same for a wife to her husband but within limits ...also remember the hadith about Allah being jealousy of us

In Sahih Bukhari, Book 62, (Chapter on Nikah), Chapter 30 it says:

CHAPTER 30: The Ghira (i.e., honour, prestige or self-respect)

[Sa'd ibn ubaada said: "If i saw a man with my wife I would strike him with the sharp edge of the sword." The prophet (SAW) said (to his companions); "Are you ashtonished by Sa'd's (Ghira) sense of honour? (By Allaah) I have a greater sense of Ghira than he has, and Allaah has still more greater sense of Ghira than I have."]

Narrated 'Abdullah bin Masud:

The Prophet, said, "There is none having a greater sense of Ghira than Allah. And for that He has forbidden the doing of evil actions (illegal sexual intercourse etc.) There is none who likes to be praised more than Allah does." [B150]

So within limits it is good ..but not to allow it take over your lives to the point that it makes you crazy ... this is one of the things that the shaytan will take advantage of  he loves when we let ourselves go to the extreme and get out of control ..because this bad jealousy is ugly and in turn it makes you look ugly ...

We want to always look good and than start with control and i know ladies we can do that as always this comes down to your belief in Allah and your trust too