Women We Are Our Own Worse Enemies

Asalamu alikum

Well the search goes on and maybe just maybe it isnt meant to be Allahu alum if it does happen i'm ready and if not i'm ready ...but as i sit here waiting to see what Allah will or will not place in my path i start to wonder why we women are our own worse enemies 

We want this life and all in it and we want the next life and if we dont get what we want we throw a fit ...now when it comes to polygyny women have become very good and throwing these fits and thinking ah he will stop everything because i do ... but really ladies do we even think of what Allah will do to us for acting in such a way 

I have been reading a few post on fb on blogs and other [place and one thing i seem to see alot of is women saying they will harm themselves if he takes another wife of they will take his kids and he will never see them again or even worse report them to the police ...really ladies is this the way to get what you want do you not think of the punishment you will get for doing this it may not happen in this life but defiantly in the next 

Do we not fear that Allah will not be pleased with us if we harm ourselves because of something he has allowed for his followers to do  ...do we not fear Allah for taking away the kids from our husband in order to punish him for what he is doing when in fact we will be the one to be punished ... and even worse do we not fear Allah for harming another muslim by involving police just so that we can stop what Allah made permissible ...

COME ON LADIES WE CAN DO BETTER THAN THIS

Our goal above all is jannah and doing all the above will not help you get their in fact it will delay it ... we really need to start trusting our creator and knowing what he place in our path is for our own good in order to help and prepare us for the next life

So think about it ladies do you want to be one of those Allah grants jannah to because you had subr when your husband took another wife or do you want the punishment of both this life and the next because you acted in a way that displeased your creator ...

IT'S TIME TO PUT YOUR THINKING CAPS ON AND CHOOSE WHAT YOU WANT FOR BOTH THIS LIFE AND THE NEXT