Asalamu alikum
It has been a while and nothing really to report ... hubby is still looking for another wife but also believe that Allah will give to him when and if he decides to ... we joke alot about it these days as their isnt any point in letting yourself going crazy and wondering when it will all happen
It has been a while and nothing really to report ... hubby is still looking for another wife but also believe that Allah will give to him when and if he decides to ... we joke alot about it these days as their isnt any point in letting yourself going crazy and wondering when it will all happen
i have indeed been blessed with many good sister and to the point i have been able to help in their problem with polygyny ... nobody ever said it was easy but i do believe that it depends on your relationship with Allah and those you connect yourself with ...if ppl are around you reminding you of Allah then the shyatan cant get himself in their
Their are days that pass and i sometimes think that it will never come to pass and then their are days i think maybe soon ..but one thing i dont do is allow it to take over my life and my thoughts ..... i fill those spaces with remembrance of Allah and as long as i do that Allah will be their for me no matter what
I feel like we waiting wives need s support group of our own. We cant take for granted our husbands monogamous state as it may change at any point. But we also arent dealing with polygamy right now. Its a whole unique set of issues
ReplyDeleteyes this is true ..... at any time it can change nd that why we need to prepare ourselves for this even tho we really dont know how it will be once in it but at least we will have an idea
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